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Free Relationship Advice - Become The "Right One"
However, the Law of Attraction works only as effectively to the extent that you are an attracting person, whether it's financial abundance, happiness or great relationships you're trying to attract. It's BEING BEFORE HAVING. So, here's my free relationship advice. To attract Mr/Ms "Right," focus on these:
Become The Person You Want To AttractYou have this list of specific characteristics that you want in a "significant other." Great. Start to become that type of person. Hey! You want “it” in him/her, why not develop “it” in you? OK guys, I don't mean you should also develop great legs!If you want a sense of humor, happiness, positive attitude, etc. in him/her, get working on those qualities in yourself. Otherwise, when he/she comes along and you don't have those qualities yourself, then he/she will probably pass on you. After all, LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE. If you're not "like" what you want, he/she's not going to "like" that! Oh yes, if you're not willing to do the above, then you will NEVER attract the "right one." Be Grateful For Even The "Failed" RelationshipsNext in the free relationship advice is, start affirming and be grateful for what you have had and do have in relationships. That's right, BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAD WITH YOUR EX! Yikes, I can feel the resistance to that through my screen!"Why do I have to do that?" you ask. If you don't, then you have a "relational threshold" that has in it all the things you don't want; the ex's bad qualities or the bad experiences you two had. As long as those feelings are in there, guess what? LIKE WILL CONTINUE TO ATTRACT LIKE! You'll be subconsciously seeking what you don't want. Since the subconscious is attracted to the energy, you'll get the ex with a different body! Start appreciating what you two had. Be grateful for his/her good qualities. Don't give me any crap about him/her no having any. If you can't think of any, then you're the one with the problem and I have no sympathy for you. No wonder you continue to attract jerks. Throw in there other people whom remind you of a "bad" relationship. In fact, go through as many as you can and start appreciating and being grateful! Most of us have struggled at times with ending relationships. If we don’t deal with this old stuff, it remains alive. The baggage just doesn’t quietly sit there. Its energy is moving in you and is the reason why so many keep choosing the same person in a different body! This process gets you in a very positive flow of energy. The universe "hears" that and will respond (maybe not this week, mind you!). You become free of the baggage. You become powerful, independent and strongly intentional. Don't Sit Around And WaitLastly in the free relationship advice is, don't sit around and wait, go out on dates. Ladies, ask some of your fun friends out! Do things with those whom you don't feel are "candidates" but are friends whom you enjoy.It's all a matter of practicing good relationships. As you go out and do things with others, you develop good relationships skills (hopefully!). You learn more of the qualities you would like in a significant other. This also simply meets relational needs. Find A Community Of FriendsI'm blessed in that I belong to a dancing community. No, not ballroom. Ballroom involves a lot of time and money invested. I'm in a swing dance community. It's much easier to learn and seldom "cliquish." Find one! It meets so many needs. Find some community, besides a bar, where you can meet people of similar interests. There are what is called “Meetup” groups throughout the country, with groups meeting on a regular basis with common interests like dining out, hiking, boating, law of attraction, meditation; you name it, there’s probably a group! Just do an internet search. To summarize my free relationship advice, focus on being the right person, get rid of old emotional baggage by being grateful and then get out there and have some fun with friends! FOLLOW THE BUZZ! For SIX outstanding, easily downloadable Law of Attraction E-Books, Click hereTop - Free Relationship Advice
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